tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1352342632236629246.post6549175636867925876..comments2023-10-31T07:46:46.254-05:00Comments on Me and She: Over stayedC.I.W.http://www.blogger.com/profile/10890516431378576205noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1352342632236629246.post-50054279219561536912011-08-09T07:29:37.489-05:002011-08-09T07:29:37.489-05:00Wow.
A) sounds like they aren't really helpin...Wow.<br /><br />A) sounds like they aren't really helping mix. Turning into a victim is hardly being supportive friends.<br /><br />B) are these girls teenagers? Are they really so clueless about boundaries.<br /><br />C) you probably know this, but it's hard to find normalcy when you live together. I once lived with an ex for 6 months. The entire time, my motivation was to "win her back". I didn't start healing until i moved out.Pomegranatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03269172833468901068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1352342632236629246.post-76531069419444746602011-08-08T12:51:47.305-05:002011-08-08T12:51:47.305-05:00*crossed! Sorry about that!*crossed! Sorry about that!Minahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17973567784961566146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1352342632236629246.post-24806642837072390262011-08-08T12:50:44.073-05:002011-08-08T12:50:44.073-05:00Okay, who the hell are they to meddle in your rela...Okay, who the hell are they to meddle in your relationship? It's one thing to be a sounding board, but they crozzed the line completely. There are two sides to every story, and even if they don't agree--it's none of their freaking business! <br /><br />I give you SO much credit for what you are doing.Minahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17973567784961566146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1352342632236629246.post-77251774917531906312011-08-08T12:11:00.322-05:002011-08-08T12:11:00.322-05:00I found your blog via Solo Homo...intrigued by the...I found your blog via Solo Homo...intrigued by the title, I linked. Wow.<br /><br />I've read a few posts, and just want to say that you are doing what you must do -- I know, because 4 mos ago I left my wife of 11 years after agonizing about it for at least 2 years. I wasn't (and you aren't) doing anyone any favors by staying in a relationship that no longer works for you. In the long run she may come to understand this. I hope so. For both your sakes.<br /><br />I didn't leave for another woman -- I am going solo for the foreseeable future -- I left for ME. I left a woman who is essentially good and sweet, but got lost in a fog of drugs and alcohol and couldn't find her way out. After much patience and understanding, I decided to save my own life.<br /><br />My best wishes to you -- it gets so much better! You deserve (and so does she) to get what you want out of this short and precious life.Taradharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17665801586196931603noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1352342632236629246.post-15647567990035680002011-08-08T10:26:46.953-05:002011-08-08T10:26:46.953-05:00I just wanted to de-lurk and reach out to you. It...I just wanted to de-lurk and reach out to you. It takes courage to step out of a situation you have been in for a long time, even when you are unhappy. <br /><br />I've been on the other side of this situation and I know how it feels once you get to a point where you are ready for it to be done and you keep coming home to someone that you still love. I will tell you that I did some very mean things when I was there - and said quite a few things that were out of line. However, once it was over and the initial hurt had passed, she and I became great friends and moved on. <br /><br />All in all you just have to know that you are doing what is right for you...and sometimes that's just a necessity. Sometimes you have to live for yourself and your needs.<br /><br />Thinking of both of you...abmayfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06074001848829205055noreply@blogger.com